⚡️1. Have deep, meaningful conversations. If you feel like they don’t occur naturally, there are cool journals and prompt cards that can help initiate the conversations.
⚡️ 2. Make time for each other. Schedule date times, just like you do for other important things. Your relationship should not be “the leftover of the day”.
⚡️ 3. Create new experiences. Sometimes we miss the spontaneous phase of our relationship – but there is no reason why it can’t be now! Fill a mason jar with cool date ideas you’d like to do someday, and when you feel spontaneous pick a card and let destiny take you on a new adventure.
⚡️ 4. Invest in an intimate couple photo session with someone who specializes in intimate connections. It’s more than just photos. It’s an opportunity to spend time fully present together and share an experience that can actually light a fire in you. Add it in your mason jar date ideas 😉
⚡️ 5. Spend time apart. This one sounds counter intuitive but sometimes when you spend a lot of time together especially while working from home, it can get easy to take each other for granted. Taking time apart can enliven the relationship dynamics and allow for curiosity, more interesting conversations and growth.
⚡️ 6. Surprise each other. It can be small gestures to show your partner you think about them. Honor their love language (whether it’s receiving gifts, quality time, words of affirmation, physical touch, acts of service).
⚡️ 7. Try a new hobby together. Maybe it’s pottery? Maybe it’s baking? Maybe it’s home karaoke? Maybe it’s working out? Sharing a hobby can definitely contribute in deepening your relationship.
⚡️ 8. Check in with each other daily. Can you spend 20 minutes together without your cellphones, TV, computers, tablets and just be there for each other? Check in on how you are feeling, what are your goals, your dreams etc. Let’s stop living life passively!
⚡️ 9. Connect deeply with yourself and your own body. By taking time to know yourself better, you will get more in line with your desires and be able to communicate / share those more clearly with your partner. This can be done through self awareness workshops, meditation, dancing, journaling, solo walks, and more.
⚡️ 10. Don’t be afraid to seek professional help. Don’t wait until it’s too late. This can be done through relationship counseling/therapists/coaches.
How do you get a deeper connection with your significant other? If you have a helpful tip or if any of these suggestions surprised you, share below!
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